The Rational Male” by Rollo Tomassi.
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EPISODE 21 – The Importance of Options Confidence is derived from options or the proven capacity to generate options.
Look at any woman’s dating profile. There are a lot of common attributes women want in men, but confidence is always on the list. Many ‘Success Porn’ feel-good Gurus claim to have the key to digging deep in some esoteric well of confidence, but what really is ‘confidence’? It’s unconscious assurance that if you fail at one endeavor you’re still okay because you have other irons in the fire. Most men don’t ask for a raise until they’ve secured another job offer elsewhere – they know that if they’re rejected they have the new job to buoy them.
The same is true with women. The man with options unconsciously manifest this knowledge in his behaviors. He’s far more willing to experiment with failure because he’s got other options. This is why Plate Theory is so imperative for a man to adopt as a dating strategy; it presents a man with actionable options. He’s got nothing to lose because he’s not invested in his one glorious chance with a girl.
Even if he doesn’t have immediate options, a man who’s experienced success and achievements understands that he is capable of generating more options. This benefits him with a confidence that derives from prior competence.
The margin of error with respect to confidence is much less for the man who is single rather than married. In marriage, by definitions that man has less options. Or does her?
Every married guy needs to ask himself an honest question if your wife left you today do you have options? Are there other women that would be knocking at the door? 90 to 95% of married guys would say no if they were honest, that other 5% are Red Pill aware.
Why is passive Dread so much easier to employ when you have real options? How does Plate Theory foster confidence? Why is confidence the new snake oil being sold in Success Porn today? How does women’s imagination work with the confidence she perceives in you? Bonus: What is the difference between Sexual Market Value and Relationship Market Value?
In this presentation, Rollo Tomassi discusses hypergamy, the Red Pill and what you can do to optimize your sexual market value as a man.
In this speech you will also learn:
– Why hypergamy is unique to the female psyche
– The dichotomy of “alpha fucks” and “beta bucks”
– How to benefit from your girlfriend or wife’s menstrual cycle
The Rational Male is a rational and pragmatic approach to intergender dynamics and the social and psychological underpinnings of intergender relations. The book is the compiled, ten-year core writing of author/blogger Rollo Tomassi from therationalmale.com. Rollo Tomassi is one of the leading voices in the globally growing, male-focused online consortium known as the “Manosphere”. Outlined are the concepts of positive masculinity, the feminine imperative, plate theory, operative social conventions and the core psychological theory behind Game awareness and “red pill” ideology. Tomassi explains and outlines the principles of intergender social dynamics and foundational reasoning behind them.
The Rational Male by Rollo Tomassi